When could I do that?

Others are trying their best to climb at the peak of success. But when they will be successful, they said that it’s so lonely being on top. Why is that so? Is it because few people are successful? For me, if I will be on top and be successful in life, in order for me not to be alone and lonely, I’ll have to pull up those people close to me and I will teach them the road to success so that together they will be staying on top with me. But the big question there is when will I be successful? And when could I help people to be successful when I am still struggling in life?